- texting and communication preferences
	- nice websites
		- https://dontasktoask.com/
		- https://xyproblem.info/
		- https://nohello.net/en/
		-	https://modalzmodalzmodalz.com/#content
	- What are you trying to say with a message
		- Please avoid emoji
			- I hate reactions
		- Have an idea of what you want me to do with information in mind
	- In person is better then over text